The Thief

Almost two years ago, at the age of 38, I developed dementia along with my Parkinson’s. I had been experiencing symptoms of memory losses and blackouts along with some confusion and speech problems. After a visit with my neurologist I started a medication for Alzheimer’s more specifically

dementia due to Parkinson’s, Exelon. Within six months later my symptoms had continued to get worse so with the advice of my neurologist we increased the dosage of my medication. I have a deficient in my working memory, which is the system that actively holds multiple pieces of transitory information in the mind, where they can be manipulated. I struggle with apathy, and problems with attention, focusing, concentration, disorientation, and memory to name a few. Even my personality has changed.

Today my dementia is progressing. Lately I seem to be experiencing what’s known as sundowning.
Sundowning refers to a state of confusion at the end of the day into the night. Sundowning can cause a variety of behaviors, such as confusion, anxiety, aggression, wandering, agitation, and restlessness. Lately my anxiety level has been through the roof, especially in the evening.

Sometimes I can also experience what’s known as night wandering in the middle of the night. It’s just as the name suggest. I get up in the middle of the night unaware and start wandering around the house. A few times I’ve been disoriented and lost unable to find my way out of a room. Eventually I come to not knowing how long I have wandered around.

How does all this affect my day to day life? Paying bills, doing housework, cooking dinner, watching TV, etc? Well I don’t work. My memory and concentration is too bad. I’m unable to multitask and get confused easily. Not to mention the Parkinson’s. So I take care of the house, which is not that complicated for me so far. I’m no longer capable of doing the bills. I used to love to read but now it’s like reading a different language. I can read the words but not grasp what they are saying. As far as something as simple as watching TV, it’s become an activity of picture watching. My brain just can’t focus.

Nor do I drive anymore. I haven’t driven in 4 years. Mainly due to the Stage 2 Parkinson’s but also in combination to the early symptoms of dementia. Remembering directions is impossible for me. Even in the town I grew up and used to have the streets memorized. Now I get disoriented and turned around.